If...
If you feel you are not being treated with the respect you deserve, does it mean that...
1) You overestimate the amount of respect you deserve; or
2) Your behavior is inconsistent with your self-perception, leading others to underestimate the amount of respect you deserve (see also "1"); or
3) You are in an environment which simply does not appreciate your qualities (due to either rationally or irrationally preferring other qualities), such that while you do deserve some respect, you are simply not going to get it around here?
In other words, should one interpret signals from the environment as useful feedback about oneself, or as useful information about the environment?? Not to mention, what to do with such feedback once received and interpreted...
1) You overestimate the amount of respect you deserve; or
2) Your behavior is inconsistent with your self-perception, leading others to underestimate the amount of respect you deserve (see also "1"); or
3) You are in an environment which simply does not appreciate your qualities (due to either rationally or irrationally preferring other qualities), such that while you do deserve some respect, you are simply not going to get it around here?
In other words, should one interpret signals from the environment as useful feedback about oneself, or as useful information about the environment?? Not to mention, what to do with such feedback once received and interpreted...
posted by AlleyCat | 14:57
1 Comments:
Because of my recent experience in Utrecht I would say you are in an environnement which doesn't respect you because doesn't recognise the respect you deserve...due to this you behave in a different way which may favorise this disrespect. Could be mobbing...check this out
http://www.bullyonline.org/workbully/mobbing.htm
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